Monday, October 13, 2014

Handbook For Boys - Discussion #3

Today, Lindsay, Heather, Sam, and I met for a third time. We used Google Plus Hangouts to discuss pages 97 – 157. For our discussion today, we mainly focused on more life lessons taught by Duke and how they apply to everyday life (no matter the person).

First, we all agreed that everyone can make the same choices in life. Every individual is free to speak however they want to speak and free to act the way they want to act. Obviously there are different outcomes and some individuals may have advantages/disadvantages, but overall, we have the ability to make the same types of choices in life. This led us into talking about the consequences to actions. No matter what choices one makes in life, there are always consequences to actions, both good and bad.

In Duke’s shop, we see all different types of people coming in and out. Some of these people make an impression on Jimmy, especially Dr. Ernie Colfax. Dr. Colfax could have been in the NBA, but instead, he chose to go to medical school and become a doctor. This captures Jimmy’s interest, making him wonder if that was a hard decision. Dr. Colfax explains how  med school was definitely hard, but totally worth it. Duke and Dr. Colfax also get into talking about drugs. One thing we know is that drugs don’t discriminate. As much as one may say they will never do drugs, there is no guarantee that they won’t, and we see this every day. All you can do is make a plan for your life, make smart decisions, and think about what the consequences of your actions may be.

In addition, we got into talking about “good” and “bad” people. Everyone is innately born good, but how they are raised and the people they choose to associate with can definitely have an effect on the way they turn out. It is important to have someone whom you can look up to in your life, someone who wants to help you become successful. Especially during adolescence, this type of guidance and support is key.  In this case, Duke is that role model for Jimmy, whether he likes to admit it or not.

Throughout my reading, I saw Jimmy becoming more open minded and receptive Duke’s life lessons. One thing that made me happy was when Duke took Jimmy to the basketball game. At first Jimmy wanted nothing to do with it, but with a little push from his mother Jimmy went with Duke. To his surprise, he had a great day and was thankful to have shared it with Duke. Even when Kevin called him that night to ask how it was, Jimmy said he had a great time and actually became a little defensive when Kevin was talking poorly about the day.


The more I read, the more I get the idea that Kevin is very self centered and selfish. He only wants to associate himself with people  who have excellent grades and involvement with clubs/organizations. From what I know, he judges from outer appearance and doesn't give other individuals a chance. One thing I don't like is that Kevin has been acting as if he were above Jimmy, when in reality, they both have gotten trouble with the law.

Questions while reading:
  • Is Jimmy's dad going to somehow come back into the picture?
  • Will the tension increase between Jimmy and Kevin? Or will they just drop it?

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